Call it what you want - sexual assault, sexual coercion, rape - it’s WRONG. Submitted by: Anonymous There was a guy in town some of us knew as “Drunk Cowboy” because he frequented local bars, wore a cowboy hat, and sang karaoke. I assumed he was probably an alcoholic, because he got loud in the … Continue reading Raped By a Drunk Cowboy
I have had to force myself to find the negative side of things that I haven’t been able to completely move on from. The negative side of OC, that is. Many things remind me of him, like every time I see a white pickup truck I look to see if it’s him. (Do you realize … Continue reading Viewing the Negative Side of a Relationship In Order to Move On
Having a taste of something good only to have it suddenly snatched away is a real bitch. I think about how I felt about OC when we were together and how much I miss the things he brought to the table that no one else has covered. Besides the undeniable physical attraction, what was more … Continue reading Losing a Connection Can Be Devastating
I was watching a cooking show the other day, and one of the contestants talked about dating or hanging out with a guy on Friday or Saturday, but the person she wants to spend her Sundays with is the one who is really special. I haven’t spent a Sunday with anyone since OC, mainly because … Continue reading Who Will You Spend Your Sundays With?
Dear Susanna, I met this new guy but I’m not sure if he really likes me or is just another player. How do I tell if he’s really interested or just wants to get laid? — Aly Dear Aly, I’m sure most women can relate to this question, and sometimes it really is difficult to … Continue reading Does he really like me, or does he just want sex?
Dear Susanna, I’m in my 40s and trying to reconnect with my boyfriend from high school. He seems interested but not very responsive all the time, and this has been going on for years. Either he’s intense telling me he loves me or simply doesn’t respond. He’s single, never married, and living in L.A. This … Continue reading Ex Boyfriend Says He Loves Me, Then Doesn’t Respond
I’ve been doing a lot of introspection lately and keeping to myself. I try to make myself get out once in a while so I don’t get cabin fever, but I haven’t really had the energy to bother. I’ve been eating like shit, then healthy… and either living healthy or not doing the healthiest things … Continue reading January 2019 Brain Dump