I’ve been trying to throw things away to make room for more, but can’t seem to get rid of things like my old scrapbook of “Crushes, Dates, & Loves”. I should hand this down to my daughter, as I’m sure she could appreciate some of these stories. Some stories I barely remember - or not … Continue reading Random Bad Dates from my 20s
I have had to force myself to find the negative side of things that I haven’t been able to completely move on from. The negative side of OC, that is. Many things remind me of him, like every time I see a white pickup truck I look to see if it’s him. (Do you realize … Continue reading Viewing the Negative Side of a Relationship In Order to Move On
Having a taste of something good only to have it suddenly snatched away is a real bitch. I think about how I felt about OC when we were together and how much I miss the things he brought to the table that no one else has covered. Besides the undeniable physical attraction, what was more … Continue reading Losing a Connection Can Be Devastating
I was watching a cooking show the other day, and one of the contestants talked about dating or hanging out with a guy on Friday or Saturday, but the person she wants to spend her Sundays with is the one who is really special. I haven’t spent a Sunday with anyone since OC, mainly because … Continue reading Who Will You Spend Your Sundays With?
It seems like every time I call a man out on his bullshit, he stops talking to me. No big loss, however. I met someone my age in my area that I became "friends" with, but it’s a little strange. I recognized him through social media when he came into my job a few times. … Continue reading Is He Gaslighting Me or What?
The other day I was thinking that a year ago I had a lot of things going on. I started out house sitting for a friend at an amazing beachside location, but ended up getting the flu that eventually turned into pneumonia. It took about three months to feel normal again. In the meantime, I … Continue reading A Year in Review – Sickness, Death, Grief, & Being Alone
Friends don’t set friends up with other friends that may be crazy. But that’s not always the case. About a year or so ago after being dumped by Orange Crush, one of my friends thought she was being helpful and really wanted me to meet one of her male friends, even though I told her … Continue reading A Date with the Most Annoying KISS Fanatic