I haven’t been writing much. I’ve been thinking about writing a lot lately, but just haven’t gotten around to doing it. I really need to force myself to do it, since it’s basically a form of therapy and a release of toxins in my brain. But I did another brain dump in May and never … Continue reading Life After a Hysteroscopy
I know I’ve only been posting about my dates from hell, but I have actually had some pretty good dates over the years. However, most of those had no chemistry on my part. Obviously, I had three months of great dates AND chemistry with OC, so that bar has been set to only find good … Continue reading And Then I’ve Had Some Good Dates…
Dear Susanna, I met this new guy but I’m not sure if he really likes me or is just another player. How do I tell if he’s really interested or just wants to get laid? — Aly Dear Aly, I’m sure most women can relate to this question, and sometimes it really is difficult to … Continue reading Does he really like me, or does he just want sex?
The first turn-off in my marriage was the day he cried. No, not just cried. Bawled. No one had died, and nothing bad had happened. Big Baby sat in the beige recliner in front of the tv in the living room of our brand new home and bawled his head off all because he couldn’t … Continue reading First Turn-Off – The Big Baby
Recently, I had a conversation with some female friends about how annoying it is when we’re asleep, and our partner wakes us up to have sex. Not just wakes us, but wakes us up out of a dead sleep, rubbing us, poking us, or whatever it takes to get our attention - even if it … Continue reading Nonconsensual Sex with a Partner?
This is probably going to be somewhat disturbing to some readers, so this is fair warning. When I was 16, I worked with a guy that went to my school. For about a year he begged me to date him, but I wasn’t interested. Eventually, I gave in to him and he was my “first … Continue reading How I Lost My Virginity
I have decided that relationships are not for me. I can either have a career or a relationship, but not both. When I put my all into something, it's 100%. I cannot juggle both things and make everyone happy. Not even myself, because at some point my passion is being extinguished by the demands of domestication. … Continue reading Taking a new turn – a brain dump and secrets